Many people enjoy giving and receiving cunnilingus, but where do you turn when you want to learn more about oral sex or ways to introduce it into a relationship? The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus is a resource for people who are looking to expand their expertise or are simply curious. In her clear, concise, and informative text, sex educator Violet Blue provides step-by-step instructions for going down on a woman, as well as accurate and up-to-date information on female anatomy and response. In her friendly, witty tone, Blue dispatches fascinating facts and discusses games for lovers, positions, safety, a variety of techniques, erotic book and video recommendations, and tips for effectively communicating with a partner.

CUSTOMER REVIEWS (Average Customer Rating: 4.0 based on 56 reviews)

AUTHOR REALLY KNOWS HER STUFF!

I consider Violet Blue to be one of the best sex writers around. Her information is complete and well presented. There is very little she does not cover in this book about cunnilingus. If there is anything that she has left out, then buy another book to accompany this one. I would recommend Was that an earthquake? The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex. It is a flip over book. That is, Book One is everything you need to know about cunnilingus. Flip it over, and Book Two is everything you need to know about fellatio. Buy it together with this book, and won't ever need to spend any more money!
May 07, 2008

For all who worship the female triangle

When eating ice cream it is not typical to think of new ways to enjoy it. But perhaps one could use a different spoon, or maybe let the sides of the bowl or container warm up a bit first in order to make the ice cream more creamy. Timing is of course an issue, as one cannot let it all melt, and one does not want to hurry it down, lest one not be able to enjoy the taste and texture. So there are some rules that apply to the eating of ice cream, violation of which lowers the overall experience.

For those who worship the female triangle, its warmth, its texture, its aroma, and its taste, the same sort of rules apply, and this book details these rules, without the clinical overtones that are sometimes encountered in literature and film on the subject. Even those seasoned in the art of pleasuring the triangle can always gain from advice. There may be different angles to pursue, as one maps out the geometry of the triangle, with the intent always of bringing its bearer to that blissful end state characterized by distinct auditory tones and bodily writhing.

Whether the triangle is decorated or not, the author invites its worshipper to take due diligence in its care, knowing though that health and pleasure do not have to be antonyms, and that each triangle has its own distinct characteristics, giving unique pleasure to both involved. The clock plays a role of course. Timing can be delicate and highly variable, and experience works wonders. In general, one is to walk slowly at first: just a stroll. The circumstances will determine the rate, whether one backs off or moves forward with determination. Its bearer will send the signals to this end, but the author gives hints on how to read these. And just like good ice cream, one cannot help but to clean the bowl.
November 18, 2007

Where was this book when I needed it??

Well better late than never. When I was growing up and going through my teenage years, the only advice I got on how to lick the harry hatchet wound was from comedian Sam Kinison. He said just to write the alphabet. Well I figured out the hard way that's not really true, and making the letters K, X, and F are pretty difficult and can give your tongue a cramp.

Now that I have read this book, I feel like a world class tuna taco eater. As I read this book, it felt as if I was a spy reading enemy battle plans. I learned about nerve endings in the clitoris, to electric signals from the vulva. After completing this book, all I can say is that the vagina has got to be the most confusing piece of flesh in the world, you really do need a book. The government should print pamphlets about it.

Well now that I am armed with the knowledge, I plan to apply my know-how. If there are any chicks out there who want to get in touch with me, send me a message.

Bon Apetit!!!!!!!
July 24, 2007

A different book, with a male perspective

Frankly, I've not read this book, but I am going to give it a try and will not knock it. However, for those who would like a male perspective on this art, see Ian Kerners, "She Comes First." Kerner is a sex therapist with an obvious passion for this subject. His book is written with wit, style, and, most importantly, SUBSTANCE! After the obligatory anatomy lesson, he spends a lot of time addressing men's attitudes toward this activity, and how to frame it in a way that is loving and generous ("Brevity is the soul of wit, but not of cunnilingus"). There is also a lot of "technical detail" with specific crib lists for various levels of expertise. I have been a cunnilinguist for over 30 years, and now I not only know why some of the techniques I've stumbled on work, but also picked up a few new tricks and certainly a better attitude. By the way, Kerner has written a companion book called "He Comes Second."
March 31, 2007

LOOKIE! Pictures and everything! :D

"EXCELLENT!!!" - 'In Depth' coverage of material - Slight lesbian flavor. Very Tasty Read...
January 31, 2007

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