Product Description
Based on over 200 interviews and 13 years of counseling experience, psychologist Sandra Kahn has written the first guide to offer help to women whose unresolved issues keep them emotionally bound to their ex-husbands, even years after a divorce is final.

CUSTOMER REVIEWS (Average Customer Rating: 5.0 based on 12 reviews)

Superb help! by E. G. Oldfield (New Jersey, USA)

5 Stars
March 03, 2009
This book was a life saver to a drowning woman. Kuhn's whole practice revolves around Ex-Wives, and she astutely has figured out patterns that keep us connected - what a revelation! It felt many times like I had been speaking with her myself. My best take away was to treat everything with him like a business transaction to keep from getting hurt, which is incredibly helpful. I have recommended this to EVERY friend who is going/has gone through a divorce as a head check; it was THAT good. Thanks for great advice well written, easy to read and for helpful diagnostics which really hit the mark. Worth EVERY cent and more!

leaving him behind by Rosaura Botero (california)

5 Stars
December 27, 2008
I separated about 3 months ago, and before reading this book it had been hard for me to move on, I was constantly asking myself the reasons why he left why he didn't follow me, what did I do wrong, who is he with. This book help me to realize how much I put him on a petestal that was not made by him I created all this fantasy around our family. I learned wonderful steps to stop thinking about him, I am rebulding my life and it is now ok for me to cut all responsabilities with him. It is ok for me to start a new life free of guilt and fantasies. thank you for making this book available to me in such a short time.

Leaving Him Behind by Jane M (northern CA)

3 Stars
November 17, 2008
If you are the person who initiated the divorce and you will have a lasting friendship with your ex, then this book isn't for you. We have a respectful relationship upon parting, I'm the breadwinner of the relationship, and neither of us are bitter about the divorce. I instead need to 'break the ties' that bind us to establish freedom to create my own future...essentially understand the progression from married to single. This book is more about the male being the breadwinner and the husband initiating the divorce.

Fantastic by Lori L. Miller (Oregon)

5 Stars
December 05, 2006
I would recommend this book above all others for women who have gone through a divorce and need help moving on. This book is practical and will help you on your journey to start a new life and get beyond the past.

I needed this one by Dee Dehan (indianapolis)

5 Stars
August 15, 2006
I needed this book. I will probably refer to it often. There is no life after divorce if you don't move on. This book contained many eye-openers for me. Hopefully after reading this I won't sabotage my own happiness by staying attached to a man who is unable to make a committment to anyone other than himself. I've probably read at least ten books on survival and recovery from divorce. This one is helping me let my 32-year marriage die.

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