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| | Binding: | Paperback | | Publisher: | Naomi Aldort, PhD | | Page Count: | 280 Pages | | Publication Date: | January 01, 2006 | | Sales Rank: | 11,891th |
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Every parent would happily give up ever scolding, punishing or threatening if she only knew how to ensure that her toddler/child/teen would thrive and act responsibly without such painful measures. Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves is the answer to this universal wish. It is not about gentle ways to control a child, but about a way of being and of understanding a child so she/he can be the best of herself, not because she fears you, but because she wants to, of her own free will. "Aldort’s book should be on the must read list of all Moms and Dads. This book could carry a subtitle: "Saving the Emotional Lives of Our Children and The Future of Humanity."" - James Prescott, Ph.D. Institute of Humanistic Science "Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves operates on the radical premise that neither child nor parent must dominate; it is for those who want to give up scolding, threatening and punishing. Her SALVE "formula" alone is worth the price of the book." - Peggy O'Mara Editor and Publisher of Mothering "Every once in awhile, a writer comes along who is comfortable speaking the truth, no matter how much it might challenge us or make us uncomfortable. Naomi Aldort is one of those people. In Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves, Naomi Aldort takes the struggle out of parenting and replaces controlling and shaping style of parenting with one that values, trusts and nurtures children's innate abilities and autonomy." - Wendy Priesnitz Editor of Life Learning magazine, author of School Free and Challenging Assumptions in Education "In this stunning insight into human nature, Naomi Aldort opens a window into harmonious family living. This book should to be widely read and not just by parents but by every being who strives for a more peaceful world." - Veronika Robinson, Editor of The Mother magazine, UK |
CUSTOMER REVIEWS (Average Customer Rating: 5.0 based on 40 reviews)
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I don't need any more parenting books by C. Weiss (atlanta, ga United States)  5 Stars
October 27, 2009
I read this book three years ago and haven't read another one since. After reading it, my relationship with my chidlren and my view of children completely transformed. This book should be required reading for anyone who is thinking of becoming a parent, is pregnant or is already a parent, no matter how old their children. Every sentence is so profound, I keep re-reading it and re-reading it. It is my parenting bible. I recommend it to anyone and everyone. It is so important for parents to be the way Naomi Aldort is describing that I believe the future prosperity of our planet depends on her timeless truths.....all based in your own unconditional love for your child. She helps you get to that place where you can be the unconditional love that you are more and more and more as time goes by. I have so many moments of pure peace, freedom, joy, and love because of reading this one book. Before reading this book, I probably read 20-30 parenting books. None compare to this one. Don't waste your money on any others. This is the only one you'll ever need to read, and re-read, and re-read. You get so much value from this one purchase. It will change your life, your children's lives, your family's life and it is changing the world. I'm thankful beyond words that I found it.
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A must have book for ALL parents by Bern (NY, NY) 5 Stars
August 06, 2009
After reading many parenting books, I have to say that this tops the list. I'm reading it for the second time already and I'm certain there will be many more reads to follow as I look for examples and support while attempting to "undo" the automatic parenting style/communication ingrained in me. I have bought several copies: one for my husband, my babysitter, and even one for my mother-in-law in hopes that she too, will learn from it and jump on board with our chosen parenting philosophy.
For as much information it provides, this book is a very easy read!
I must also say that reading it brought to light unresolved "issues" with my own childhood. Issues that I was reminded needed attention.........
Don't hesitate, buy this book now! Your kids will be blessed that you did.
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Life changing by Blue Mcgowan (Menifee, CA) 5 Stars
July 14, 2009
I haven't finished reading this book yet and it's ALREADY changed my life. My parenting perspective has shifted, there is more love and less dominating and controlling between myself and my 3 & 5 year old kids. I plan to finish the book and then read it all again... oh and give copies to all my Mom friends!! If you have an open mind and are willing to try a new plan, then this is a must read.
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Raising our children, healing ourselves... by P. Loke (Melbourne, Australia) 5 Stars
June 07, 2009
For any parent, grandparent or in fact, any other human being out there who has relationships with others, this book introduces a genuinely inspiring way of living and relating to others - with love, kindness, gentleness, assertiveness and respect. It also happens to be one of the best parenting books I have ever read (of about 40). Naomi effectively highlights how the essential it is that we see children as having the same right to be treated with honour and dignity that we adults expect to be. Naomi's personal integrity, wisdom and broad range of experience shine as she leads us into a new world of parenting and relating to others. She encourages you to ask hard questions, and I don't think you could read her book and not begin to heal the wounds of your own upbringing. I have had some very serious challenges with the way I have dealt with my children in the past, but I am gradually finding a gentler, more loving path and we can see the benefits already. All children deserve to have parents who are willing to grow and heal on their journey as parents... this book is a great place for you to start.
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A gem by Susan Sparling (California) 5 Stars
May 31, 2009
I've honestly only read about 1/2 of this book and that may all I ever need, truth be told. The key ideas shared are transforming (and I can't believe I'm using that word) the ways I'm communicating with my 3 year old. When I take the time to *think* about how to reframe a concept so my very bright daughter gets it and calms down, I love it. More to learn from the ideas presented, but I do want to recommend this as one of the most important communication books I've ever read. I don't like self-help books, so this is saying a great deal. Take the time to read the author's approach -- it's more than I imagined and I NEVER say that.
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